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What’s worse for me is I know currently she has had a Fwb going on with another woman, she tells me it’s just fun as that’s all she after, but then keeps inviting me every where she’s going, the smiles the dancing the touching is all confusing me, she acts like she wants more than Friends but then tells me she is not ready for a relationship. We agreed to be just friends, but my feelings for her have grown, not sure if hers has as well, most of the signs you speak of are all there, but she keeps telling me she not ready for a relationship, I don’t ask and have never told her how I feel, but she keeps reminding me of this on a regular bases. I never really pay attention to any special signs because I myself, is quite shy. It’s more likely it’s a sign of interest if she brings it up near the end of the conversation.

Women today are like investigators and “stalkers” (not the bad kind, although there are some bad fruits in the basket). One is frequent tucking of her hair behind her ear while you talk to her. There are also actions that will tell you she likes you. It doesn’t always mean they’re embarrassed, sometimes it is because they’re excited and nervous at the same time. Some girls, especially the shy ones, easily blush when you say or do something they like.

4. She makes it clear she’s out there

In fact, researchers have found that women are usually the ones who make the first move; albeit in a subtle way. Researchers have found that eye-blink rate increases when someone is nervous. Comfort is important for women when it comes to selecting a boyfriend. You don’t want to appear needy as you already have her attention.

Or she might flirt in another physical way such as playfully hitting you or even being more direct if she’s confident and highly attracted to you. She should soon relax into your company, but initial nerves are a sure sign she’s interested. If you keep playing, she’ll probably lose interest pretty quickly, so for the love of god stop messing around and text her back. Again, this will vary from girl to girl, but generally, if we like someone, we’ll message them back pretty quickly. She may no longer feel as comfortable being that friendly because in her heart she wants more.

  • These are very good signs that she’s thinking about dating you… and that she likes the idea.
  • Especially if she makes sure to touch you with some sexual parts of her body.
  • When a girl likes you she wants you to have a bigger part of her life.
  • Common areas to touch are arms, shoulders, back, hands, or thighs.
  • If your actions are now driven by the ulterior motive of catching her attention, you may truly love her.

This is a great sign that there’s chemistry and rapport between the two of you. You make her feel good, and she wants to impress you with her glowing smile. If she’s trying to let you know she’s single and she wants to know your status, she probably likes you and wants to know that there could be a future between the two of you.

She may regularly tuck her hair behind her ear whilst you talk or reapply lip gloss during a bathroom break. So she will check her hair, touch up her makeup, and adjust her clothes to their rightful positions. Being around a guy we like generally puts us in a good mood and can make us very giggly, so smiles and laughter are excellent.

It demands a whole new kind of nosiness – identifying stealth body language signals, hearing linguistic cues, and doing some slick James Bond sleuthing (minus the misogyny). But trying to suss out the interest level of the woman on the other side of the table or WhatsApp thread requires more than an acute sense of smell. Try and make some jokes, make her feel comfortable with your company.

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A girl who buys you a drink (or who wants to buy you a drink) is a girl who values your company and wants to invest in you. It’s not the strongest indicator of sexual interest, since she could do this with a friendzoned guy, but it’s better than nothing. She’s proud of knowing a guy like you and feels comfortable to introduce you to her friends. Just like some beta male would stare at a hot girl and quickly look away when being caught. This applies when you’re interacting with a set of several people.

You need to explain to her how you feel about her, but how you won’t be with someone who is in a relationship with someone else. Where she touches you could be a sign of what the touch means. So if you get an excuse from a woman when you ask her on a date, and she doesn’t provide an alternative time for the date, it’s almost certain she’s not interested. If she says “yes,” then she likes you or is at least open to the possibility of a romantic relationship with you.