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In this case, you can try to make her feel comfortable. There are also those girls who are shy and they get nervous when they are in the company of someone they like, turn red and become nervous and clumsy when they get in an intimate situation with you.
14) She’ll start to reveal her quirky side
She doesn’t have time to prepare her response, so this will be an excellent indicator as to whether she likes you. If she goes red in the face or she looks down, then she may be shy and nervous because she likes you.
You need to explain to her how you feel about her, but how you won’t be with someone who is in a relationship with someone else. Where she touches you could be a sign of what the touch means. So if you get an excuse from a woman when you ask her on a date, and she doesn’t provide an alternative time for the date, it’s almost certain she’s not interested. If she says “yes,” then she likes you or is at least open to the possibility of a romantic relationship with you.
So if she likes you, watch if her friends are acting differently with you. You don’t know the amount of courage she mustered just to tell you when you will meet next time. She will touch your arm or playfully slap you (not the i-hate-you-slap) and that’s good. But generally, if she’s into you, she’ll find ways to touch you, even if they’re only small gestures. When she decides to drop her wall, you will know she likes you.
- If a girl seems standoffish and avoids you, don’t necessarily give up entirely, as you may be mistaken.
- She is not necessarily attracted to you (especially if you’re in her friendzone), but it’s still a good sign.
- This kind of girl won’t want to be seen as ‘chasing’ you.
- Thanks a lot and I’m really sorry if I sounded a bit rude, I just feel like she’s the one, so I’m glad for any advice :-).
It sounds to me like she wants to get to know you and spend time with you. About your problem with being quiet and kind of shy, take a look at my article about Shyness Remedies. If your message is true (and you and I both know why I doubt it is an authentic and sincere message), you’d definitely need to address your personal issues and change your attitude and behavior if you ever want to be trusted by a girl. I believe any girl is much better off without having those sorts of complications in her life. You say offering an apology is ‘not your style’ and you try to make excuses for telling a girl you hope she dies.
However, if she lingers around to see you after everyone else has left or she randomly shows up where she knows you will be, that’s an absolute indicator this girl has a crush on you. The good news for you is they will give you hints she likes you.
What’s worse for me is I know currently she has had a Fwb going on with another woman, she tells me it’s just fun as that’s all she after, but then keeps inviting me every where she’s going, the smiles the dancing the touching is all confusing me, she acts like she wants more than Friends but then tells me she is not ready for a relationship. We agreed to be just friends, but my feelings for her have grown, not sure if hers has as well, most of the signs you speak of are all there, but she keeps telling me she not ready for a relationship, I don’t ask and have never told her how I feel, but she keeps reminding me of this on a regular bases. I never really pay attention to any special signs because I myself, is quite shy. It’s more likely it’s a sign of interest if she brings it up near the end of the conversation.
If she does something that requires an investment of time rather than money, she’s definitely into you and trying to show it. If, on the other hand, she is clutching her handbag across her midriff and looking away from you a lot, she’s trying to maintain a physical barrier between you and her either because she’s not interested, or because she is not yet comfortable enough in your presence. This one’s a little tricky because a woman holding something in her hands can mean very different things. If she brings this up, it’s one of the strongest signs that she likes what she sees. If a woman wants you to have that warm, happy feeling when you’re together, she might give you a compliment or say other nice things about you.
My point is, don’t look at the mystery of women as being a negative. There’s no reason to let her keep going further down the path of love when you’re just not feeling it. No one likes feeling rejected or out of step, so tread lightly, but be honest and straightforward. But if her feelings are more serious than yours, or you’re just not feeling the same way, you might want to have a respectful and open conversation with her. You might just want to celebrate that you’re both feeling the same way — that’s one of the most exciting discoveries in a relationship.
Girls like it when you playfully touch them like brushing their hand or a little light shove will get them thinking about you and then she will notice you. (If you talk a lot, make sure most of them are nice things or jokes). Just remember the golden rule: if she’s paying attention to you, she likes you. If she’s the type who just stares off and daydreams a lot, then she may not be directing her attention towards you.