Signal #28 – Body position issues
Read more about how to tell if a girl likes you here.
But the truth is, when you do some research and understand women psychology, the task becomes a lot easier. A person’s pupils dilate (aka get bigger) a lot of the time when they are around someone they like. Girls like it when you playfully touch them like brushing their hand or a little light shove will get them thinking about you and then she will notice you.
Studies have shown that blinking more than average can be a sign of attraction. An interesting statistic – on average, men and women blink at a rate of roughly 6-10 times per minute. If she’s blushing, there’s a high likelihood she’s attracted to you. Did you know blushing is one of the signs of attraction, and that it’s the body’s way of mimicking the effect of an orgasm as a signal to a potential mate? This is an unconscious thing a girl (with long enough hair, so this doesn’t work with Annie Lennox types) will do when she’s absorbed and captivated.
Here’s another sure-fire way to know if a girl likes you. If a girl does her best to avoid eye contact with you, she’s probably not interested. So, the next time a girl pretends not to notice you after texting you nonstop the week before, call her bluff and charm on. And if you’re already interacting with her, a good way to gauge her interest during the conversation is to see if she maintains solid eye contact.
So if your terrible puns or corny dad jokes are getting her to laugh like the ghost of Richard Pryor just floated through the window, it’s a very encouraging sign indeed. You’re telling her that you’re not confident that she does like you…which means she’ll start looking for a reason not to.
- If a girl likes you, she’ll laugh in all the right places.
- There’s no reason to let her keep going further down the path of love when you’re just not feeling it.
- Watch for their reactions like giggling or sudden silence if you approach, or notice if they ask you what you think about their friend.
- Tell her how you feel emotionally and wait for her to respond.
9. She allows you in her private area
However, establishing she likes you and making a move is only the first step. If you blew your chances with one girl, then there will be other dates and opportunities.
If a man is quick to put away his phone or cancel all interruptions, then that is a clear tale that he is attracted to you. He may be so sexually attracted to you that he can barely keep his hands off you. His feet, hands, and eyes should all be pointing toward you if he is trying to express that he is sexually attracted.
Let’s say you’re on the fence as to whether or not a woman is interested in you. And don’t think you can sway her by talking yourself up or negging her or doing whatever other dumb PUA technique you read about from some blog post written in 2009.
Either way gentlemen, don’t waste away your time wondering; it plagues the mind with unfilled curiosity. Also keep in mind how talkative she is in a conversation before and after you join it. In return, she’ll scoot on over and try to squeeze her way into the conversation. Again, this can go back to the attention bit I mentioned above. In a conversation she might come closer towards to when she’s afar.
I’m sure you’d like to think that licking her lips is an action that should be interpreted to mean she’d love to kiss you. She’s with a group who engage you in conversation, but she stays quiet. Even if she’s extremely shy, she’ll find a way to let you know that she knows you’re there.